This article was published on August 6th, 2014
Sex is fun, exiting, full of passion and energy. But with butt sex, it can get real awkward and embarrassing in a hurry if you’re not prepared.
“While a lot of people are sexually active, and are generally up-to-date on stuff, people are expected to know what douching means,” said gay porn star, Perry Cavalari. “When you say douching, that could mean something completely different than what women mean. It’s a whole separate thing when it comes to anal sex.”
Regardless if your are male or female, if you’re having anal sex, you need to know how to clean your rectum so you can be ready for your sexual adventures.
“When I’m douching, I’m not using a vinegar douche,” explains Perry Cavalari. “I usually use luke warm water. Different porn stars have different techniques. The least stressful and easiest for me is a regular water bottle, but some prefer to use an enema. That works. I’ve done it before. It depends on what your GI track is up to.”
Whether you call it douching, washing, getting ready, cleaning out, or getting prepared, you need to ensure your rectum is clean before your partner starts putting stuff inside your bum.
“For porn stars, we think that most people know what it means, and glaze over it,” said Perry Cavalari. “The same goes for fisting. It’s a lot more than just lubing your hand up. There are separate types of lube for it. It’s a different process. People think there’s not much to know about it, but that’s really not the case. There’s mechanics to it. It’s the same for douching.”
When in doubt, wash it out!