This article was published on October 8th, 2014
Dancing doesn’t have a darn thing to do with what you like to get down with in the bedroom; however, chances are you have been to a club and there was dancing and drinking involved. Being honest with ourselves, we know everything depends on how late the night is, and that is when deciding time starts. Are you going home with someone or not? Are you going to keep partying with your friends? Or are you just going to say forget the nightclub and cuddle with your pillow or puppy.
The quickly moving, dirty dancing hot shot can be seen at any bar. Most would assume with that much hip involvement he is a guaranteed bottom, an acrobat, or perhaps even both.
That guy could very easily turn into the most dominant top you might ever meet.
Remember the overly masculine guy that isn’t really dancing, or is dancing so bad because he doesn’t want to seem too flamboyant? He might just be giving himself away. Though he might look like the quarterback of the football team that you want to sleep with, and then beat your ass and make you do the dishes… yes, he is the bottom! That fantasy isn’t going to happen. Sorry. Try again.
Next time, before you judge and go running home with the wrong guy, have a conversation with the person to see if they are compatible with you as a top or bottom. Sounds crazy, right? However, in the long, or short run, you might have a better idea of what you are or not about to get into. You can save yourself a lot of time by not going home with the first person you bump into on the dance floor, and end with a night of disappointment.
Dancing has nothing to do with a persons sexual position preference. It has to do with their mood and who they are. If you don’t like surprises, then stay home and watch Titanic.