This article was published on October 11th, 2014

Before the onset of winter, it’s important to do a self-check, to really know, are you falling in love with the right guy this Autumn. But how to you know? You need to know the 5 signs your sleeping with the right guy. These are important, so pay attention!

1. He will be on your level. It doesn’t matter if your partner is older, younger, funnier, more fit, or more laid back… you just need him to be on the same mental and life scale as you.
2. See the world, together. Your partner needs to share this same feeling together. Anyone who doesn’t want to leave the city limits isn’t fun to be with. Plan and go on trips to Paris, London, Vancouver, New York and Sao Paulo. This is life. You only do it one time. Make it count.
3. When you wake up, do you smile and roll towards your partner? If you do, you have definitely found someone you are really digging. Hang on to him. It’s a good sign your into him and that he’s special to you.
4. You need a guy who listens. Even if everything you are saying is nonsense, he should still listen. Even if he already knows what he is enduring is pointless, he still does it because it gives you a chance to vent. That shows you he really cares.
5. Dig deep internally. If he really makes you feel incredible and like you’re the only person in the room, this is your guy! Forget the stats or advice column. You have found happiness and that’s all that really matters.