This article was published on November 20th, 2014
Have you ever been curious about sex parties? Maybe you were relaxing, enjoying some quiet time alone, and you started getting excited thinking about what it would be like to have a group of men over for a night of frisky fun.
Now, you may be uncomfortable with the idea of sex party filled with people you don’t know. There are people who get off on the anonymity of some parties, but if you’d rather be more knowledgeable of the men, try hosting your own party. Having your own sex party puts you in control of everything, from the guest list, to what’s allowed to happen. If bareback sex is permitted, make it known when promoting the event. Conversely, if the event is condoms only, then make sure everyone knows well in advance. You should always have a surplus of condoms that are accessible in various locations.
These things need to be taken into consideration before you start promoting your sex party, as well as determining the location. Since sex parties typically involve a large number of people, you may want to choose a place where your guests can enjoy themselves without worry. Don’t use your home if you don’t have the proper amount of privacy or aren’t comfortable with people having sex in all areas of your house. A hotel room is always a good option because guests can meet in a neutral location, there are plenty of linens, and you’re not suck cleaning up afterwards. Different guests will have their own sexual traits—meaning, you might have men who get incredibly loud while fucking.
When choosing your desired guests, don’t be afraid or not inviting someone, or even refusing someone entry. If you aren’t comfortable with their presence, it’s perfectly acceptable to say no. The point of a sex party is to have fun, and you can’t do that if you have to worry about someone in attendance that hinders the mood of the party.
When it comes time for the party, make sure everything is clean, stocked and ready to go. Have plenty of places for you and your guests to get comfortable. Lube, condoms, and a stack of towels should be available all throughout the space. You don’t want to be in the middle of a hot party and have guests complain because they can’t find critical items they need. If you prepare well-enough, you shouldn’t encounter any issues.
Lastly, provide a selection of drinks and snacks should they want to take a break. Even though it’s a party primarily for sex, you need to allow people to mingle if they choose. It might turn into an opportunity to make new friends. Nothing like a good fuck & mingle.