Exploring sex, beyond doggie style

  When it comes to anal sex, do you have a list of your favourite positions, or do you stick to have just one that you turn to, time after time? Depending on whether you are top or bottom, some positions are more pleasurable than others. But that’s not the only reason to think outside […]

Love + Sex Sex Education Jace Payne

This article was published on December 28th, 2014

 

Doggie StyleWhen it comes to anal sex, do you have a list of your favourite positions, or do you stick to have just one that you turn to, time after time? Depending on whether you are top or bottom, some positions are more pleasurable than others. But that’s not the only reason to think outside the box about the way you have sex. Some people like to have more eye contact with their partner, which makes for a more intimate experience.

Doggie style does have its benefits, so don’t misunderstand. If the top is standing and the bottom is on all fours on a bed, the active partner can assume greater control and really deliver a solid pounding. Also, for the one on the receiving end, this position is good if you’re a beginning bottom. More advanced positions can be more painful if you aren’t used to having dick up your ass.

Another position all beginning bottoms must know is the sitting position. This puts you in control. If you are particularly tight and it takes your ass longer to relax, then give this a try. It’s very simple: have your partner lay on his back, straddle him, and slowly work your way down on his cock at your own pace. Enjoy this position for a while, and then move on to other positions once you feel you can handle more.

Missionary position places the bottom on his back with his legs pushed toward his chest, or over the top’s shoulders—whichever is more comfortable based on your level of flexibility. For the bottom this position is more intense that doggie style. When being penetrated the prostate is being hit from a different angle, which can be overwhelming or painful if you are still learning how to bottom.

Next is the sideways position. And you can get into it easily from missionary. The bottom moves both legs off the side, left or right, and keeps the knees bent toward the chest. While this is only slightly different than the previous position, you have still changed the angle at which you will be penetrated—meaning a new sensation. Oftentimes, this position is very intense for the bottom. And like missionary, you are still able to pleasure yourself while being topped. A variation on this has the top raise on of the bottom’s legs, opening up their ass farther, allowing for deeper and more vigorous thrusting.

There are hundreds more positions to try, but these should be mastered before you move on to the more advanced options. Reading the Kama Sutra is a good way to discover the many ways you can fuck. It’s important to note that not all positions work the same. Some are more intense, while others are basic and geared toward bottoms that can’t handle a hardcore pounding. The best way to find out what works for you is to try them out.

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