What is edging?

It’s a cold, wet, Saturday afternoon. You’ve been home all day, bored with nothing to do. You hop on Grindr and start talking to a few guys. One guy you’ve sparked up a conversation with starts talking about how he’s been ‘edging’ for hours, and you have no idea what the hell he’s talking about. […]

Love + Sex Kink & Fetishes Brian Webb

This article was published on January 31st, 2016

What is edging? It’s a cold, wet, Saturday afternoon. You’ve been home all day, bored with nothing to do. You hop on Grindr and start talking to a few guys. One guy you’ve sparked up a conversation with starts talking about how he’s been ‘edging’ for hours, and you have no idea what the hell he’s talking about.

What is edging?

Edging is when you spend and extended length of time, bringing yourself close to the point of ejaculation, but stop abruptly and purposefully just before it happens.

Why do guys edge?

Edging allows for a greater build of a climax. It also extends the opportunity for sexual pleasure over a long period of time. For many guys, once they ejaculate, they are done with sexual play. It’s common to spend hours watching porn, fantasizing, and/or remembering past sexual encounters while edging.

Edging could be by yourself or with a partner. It can be done through masturbation, oral sex, and even intercourse. Edging is a solution many partners use if one frequently ejaculates early. It provides a greater sense of control. It can also be used during BDSM as a way to control your partner, bringing them to the point of orgasm, without allowing them to finish.

Orgasms reached after a long edging session are often larger and more powerful, and provider a greater sense of sexual relief.

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2 thoughts on “What is edging?

  1. Digger Sheepdog

    Edging can be with a coach too, getting a bud to coax you deeper into your cock head space, I’m a long time edger and can keep going for hours without stopping. Its my drug of choice, and it allows me to get into multiple other fetish/kink spaces… Like you say a little BDSM, can extend into ball stretching, cum denial (one of my favs), even some role playing. I like edging for a day, then putting it away without cumming, heightens my senses, especially my sense of smell, I become aware of other men’s scent and my cock reacts hoping for some more love. Catch myself humping air in elevators, blue balls the next day – has become a great multi-day fetish enjoyment.

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