What is fist fucking?

Skill, preparation, vulnerability and trust!

Love + Sex Kink and Fetishes Koelen Andrews

This article was published on August 24th, 2016

Fist fucking is a powerful sexual practice that requires skill, preparation, vulnerability and trust. It is an incredibly intimate act that, when done right, has been hailed as being the ultimate sexual experience.

For those unfamiliar with the term, fist fucking refers to an entire hand being inserted into the rectum, this can be done solo but is most often an act best committed in tandem. Oddly enough, due to the name, it doesn’t actually mean making a fist and pushing it up somebodies rear end. The fingers are kept extended and together while being inserted into the rectum. Using a fist in the shape of a fist is something that is referred to as punch fucking and is a whole other act. How far you want to take this is entirely up to you, some people are happy with just the fingers, some want the whole hand, others can take an entire forearm, or even two hands.

Now, obviously this can be a risky practice; however with the right preparation and planning it doesn’t have to be. It can be a phenomenal experience for both the giver and the receiver.

The receiver can prepare by emptying the chamber, so to speak, a few hours beforehand as well as making sure the passageway and surrounding areas are clean. Douching can be beneficial but the bare minimum should be a soapy shower and a proper clean up. Warming up beforehand can be great preparation and practicing with increasing sizes of butt plugs, anal beads and dildos can make for a more comfortable experience. The most important thing is to stay relaxed and communicate with your partner, if you want to take more say so and likewise if you don’t feel like you can, make that clear.

The giver also needs to make preparations beforehand. Most importantly, cutting their nails. Nobody wants to contemplate having scratchy digits inserted in their anal canal. Trim your nails right down, remove any jewelry, and lube up! There is no such thing as too much lube in the world of fist fucking, the more the better. J-lube is one of the most popular personal lubricants to get this job done. For extra protection you can wear latex gloves.

Start slow, loosen up the area, and be very gentle. Feel every motion and movement of the body. It will give valuable clues on when it’s ok to proceed, hold, or back off. Be receptive to their requests and reactions, and don’t make any sudden movements. If they tense up, wait until they relax to continue. Don’t pull out suddenly because it can lead to dangerous or smelly circumstances. If you prefer, you can use latex gloves can help to protect you from any undesirables.

Most importantly, relax and have fun! Fist fucking, when done right, is truly one of life’s greatest pleasures.

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