LGBT adoption: what you need to know

8 tips for same sex couples looking to adopt.

Life + Leisure Parenting Koelen Andrews

This article was published on June 26th, 2017

It’s the dream of many same-sex couples to raise a family. While there are a number of options, LGBT adoption is one of the easier choices to start a family. There are far too many kids without families and loving homes. Adoption can be difficult, especially for same-sex couples; however, there are some valuable tips you need to know about LGBT adoption. Here’s what you need to know when considering adoption that can save you time, money, and unnecessary stress.

  1. Know your area’s laws. Though legal across provinces in Canada, there are many conservative states in the United States that have laws on the books or are currently attempting laws that can restrict and limit adoption to same-sex couples.
  2. Work with pro LGBT agencies. It’s recommended that you only utilize adoption agencies that either have lgbtqa adoption wings or are there exclusively for LGBT parents. These agencies know the laws and are willing to work with couples stigma free.
  3. Be open minded about what you’re looking for. Many couples would love a brand-new, beautiful new-born baby, or even a two-and-a-half-year-old baby just past the “terrible 2’s”. The reality is there are millions of kids, not just babies, that need quality homes. Your chances of success become greater by broadening your expectations.
  4. Expect the unexpected. Parenting is different for everyone as all children are unique. Knowing that change is inevitable and that there will be unplanned roadblocks ahead better prepares you for the reality of parenting.
  5. Do your research. Children need lots of attention, love, understanding, care, and patience. There are millions of books out there for new parents. The better informed you are, the more confident you’ll feel when the child arrives.
  6. Join an adoption group. Having other same-sex couples moonlighting as parents in your area can be a great thing. Maybe they can help babysit or maybe simply offer a sympathetic ear. Having a community to turn to is essential when raising a child.
  7. Patience is a virtue. The adoption game can take months and even years before couples are matched with a child. There’s heaps of paper work, legal work, and meetings that have to happen before you get your child. When you do have your new little one, the patience game really begins.
  8. Wanting to welcome you and your partner’s life and world up to a child is a beautiful and admirable thing. It takes guts, determination, understanding, and a whole lot of love to adopt a child. The end result will be worth it.

These tips should help you and your partner navigate the challenges and difficulties of LGBT adoption.

Do you have experience in LGBT adoption? Leave your advice below for same-sex couples interested in adoption their first child to start their family.

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