Fisting: more than just the tips

Fisting is a sex art. Explored properly, fisting is a game of control and release.

Love + Sex Kink and Fetishes Brian Webb

As taboo as it may be to a lot of people, fisting is a lot of fun and a hot new realm of sexual enjoyment with your partner. You just have to know how to do it right. Fisting is a sex art. Explored properly, fisting is a game of control and release. Of dominance and submission. Of letting go and becoming one. In short: Definately try this at home! Fisting: here are more than just the tips.

Fisting: more than just the tips

Tops:

When it comes to being the fisting top: you’ve got the cakewalk of an easy job. You just get to sit there and enjoy a beautiful butt opening up in front of your eyes and the control over your bottom. With power, comes great responsibility, as the saying goes. It’s up to you to do whatever you can to make sure the bottom it as comfortable and enjoying himself as much as possible: he’s the one doing all the work—before, during, and after.

Make sure both of you get nice and lubed up. If you’re wearing gloves, you’ll want to use a water based lubricant so the gloves don’t deteriate. If you aren’t using gloves, time your fingernails so you are not cutting up your partner’s insides.

Go slow. Start out with a lone finger. Then two. Then three. Slowly, but surely, you will be able to fully enter and fill his void. Being a good fisting top is about patience and willingness to let your partner slowly stretch out their hole for you.Make the bottom really want that hand inside them. Don’t rush him and enjoy the process of his submission to you.

Bottoms:

Unfortunately, bottoms: you’re the one with the real job to do. You’re the ones doing God’s work. Start early on in the day by drinking plenty of water and eating a lot of fiber to guarantee a successful bowel movement prior to starting the cleaning out process.

Go for the douching gold. Clean out your booty so well that you could eat out of it. You’re going to be opening up new nooks and crevices of your ass you previously haven’t explored—with an entire hand in you doing all the exploring. You’ll want to be confident in knowing you’re going to be clean as a whistle if someone is going to be elbow deep inside of you.

Start a few weeks prior to your fisting date with a toy that can help ease you into taking something as large as a fist. A good dildo or butt plug will help you stretch out and become accustomed to receiving something equivilant in diameter.

When you are doing the deed, communication is key to a successful fisting scenario. Keep an open dialogue of communication. Is he going too fast? Too slow? Are you in pain? Relay all of this information to your top who should be on the lookout by your facial expressions.

When you are finally ready to give in, let go. Feel the depths that your partner can reach and know you have reached a new level of intimacy with your lover. It mightn’t be easy, at first, but eventually fisting will open up a previously unwritten chapter in your sex book together.

The more passages you have to the great manuscript that is your sex life, the longer your relationship is going to last.

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