A Beginner’s Guide to Gay Sex Toys

Your complete guide to buying your first gay sex toy.

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This article was published on January 28th, 2021

Believe it or not, there are still those who believe that sex toys are only for women or effeminate men. The fact that we’re living in the 21st century and that a plethora of guys still believe that talking and using sex toys is still taboo is rather terrifying. But just as the saying goes – it’s their loss. Gay guys who use sex toys in bed are those people who keep all of their options open, who are not afraid to step into something new and experiment with their body to find what makes them moan just a bit more. If you’re one of those guys who want to try out something new, take a look at this guide that we prepared, so that you know what to pay attention to.

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Get rid of the prejudice

The first thing you need to do before you embark on this crazy ride is get rid of all the prejudice. Just as mentioned, there are plenty of people who believe that using sex toys might not be the most “normal” thing for guys, and perhaps you’re one of them. And no one blames you – it’s perfectly natural to think like this if you haven’t been around people who use them regularly. Just forget about everything that you have been taught, and open your mind to new possibilities. Not even one sex toy is dangerous for your life, nor will it change anything drastically.

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Know where to buy them

Another huge reason people stay away from sex toys is the discomfort when they have to enter a sex store and ask about what they need. Gay men also have the same problem but manage to find my way around it. The good thing is that today you don’t actually have to get to the sex store to buy the things that you want. If it makes you more comfortable, you can always order sex toys online and have them delivered to your house. That way, nobody will know what you bought but make sure to read the reviews beforehand as you don’t want to end up with something you’re not ready for yet, or something of low quality.

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But what to buy?

Cock rings

Cock rings might not look all that pretty but they indeed have a unique role in your bedroom. For those of you who don’t know (just like I didn’t know), cock rings are elastic rings that fit around the base of the penis, thus trapping the blood inside the penis – that’s where you get that amazing erection and help you last longer in bed. Trust us on this – apart from all this erection game, cock rings will make your orgasms toe-curling!

Fleshlights

Another toy that you can start with is fleshlights. This helps men a lot during some lonely nights, as believed, masturbating with your hand and using a fleshlight is not the same. This will make your masturbation more interesting but it’s also the best substitute for real sex. On top of that all, there are additional accessories like suction cups or holders to make this even more interesting.

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Prostate massagers

The third beginner’s option would be prostate massagers which were probably made in heaven. Yes, they’re that good, and they can be extremely healthy, as can many other anal sex toys. Massaging your prostate is something that’s recommended to all the guys in the world, not just those who want to play around a little. A definite recommendation!

Now, did you decide to start using sex toys? Start with one, and see how it goes. Not only will you like it a lot but you will learn so much about the things that make you feel good. 

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